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Yes, please...

Yes, please...

Erika Alsborn 125 Avsnitt jul 14, 2026

Yes, Please... is a podcast hosted by Erika Alsborn about experiencing more satisfying sex, pleasure, and orgasms. It explores sexual confidence, sensual power, eroticism, and feminine delight while expanding listeners' knowledge about their bodies, sexuality, and pleasure. The show encourages practical exploration and prioritizing pleasure as something for yourself. It also points listeners to a Pleasure Rebels Facebook group and Erika Alsborn's Instagram and website.

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124: Crowding out negativity with love - a simple everyday practice
124: Crowding out negativity with love - a simple everyday practice jul 14, 2026 795 In this episode, I guide you through a simple but powerful practice that has been transforming my own mindset and helping me feel more appreciation, joy, and connection in everyday life. Rather than focusing on gratitude, I invite you to explore something slightly different: love. What do you love about your life, your body, your relationships, your work, your friends, and the journey you
123. Leaking, orgasms & pussy strength: A pelvic floor Q&A
123. Leaking, orgasms & pussy strength: A pelvic floor Q&A jun 30, 2026 1296 In this Q&A episode, I answer a listener's question: what does peeing when you sneeze tell you about your sexual health? We dive into the connection between the pelvic floor, pleasure, orgasms, core strength, and overall wellbeing. I share my own experience with postpartum incontinence and the journey of rebuilding pelvic floor strength after birth. We also explore the difference betw
122: From hot preggo life to cold postpartum: finding your way back to desire
122: From hot preggo life to cold postpartum: finding your way back to desire jun 16, 2026 1653 In this Q&A episode, I answer a listener’s question about moving from a hot, connected sex life during pregnancy to feeling completely disconnected from desire in postpartum. I talk about why this shift is so common after birth, and how much your body, identity, relationship, and nervous system are moving through in this season. Before trying to “get the sexy vibe back,” we need to st
121: We bought a house + a story about my marriage, patience, trust, and surrender
121: We bought a house + a story about my marriage, patience, trust, and surrender jun 3, 2026 1823 In this episode, I share the personal big news: we bought a house. I talk about why having a home with a garden has meant so much to me, how long and stressful the process has been, and what it brought up along the way. From selling our apartment, moving in with my in-laws, going to around 50 house viewings, and almost buying the wrong house, this has been a huge learning experience. I al
120: Why you are sexually disconnected (and how to come back to yourself)
120: Why you are sexually disconnected (and how to come back to yourself) apr 20, 2026 1785 In this episode, I unpack what it really means to feel sexually disconnected and disempowered as a woman. I explore why so many women feel numb, shut down, resentful, bored, or distant from their sexuality – and why this is far more common than most people realize. I talk about the roots of sexual disconnection, from conditioning and negative experiences to lack of education, self-kn
119: Not in the mood for sex? Let’s talk alternatives
119: Not in the mood for sex? Let’s talk alternatives apr 2, 2026 1509 In this episode, I explore the nuance of sexual intimacy in long-term relationships and what it really means to meet each other in desire, even when you’re not fully “in the mood.” I share the deeper context behind a recent (and quite controversial) post about offering a blowjob as an alternative form of intimacy and unpack why this idea sparked so much conversation. We dive into the diff
118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE
118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE mar 17, 2026 1458 In this episode, I explore the art of relaxation and why so many women struggle to truly rest. I share my personal journey of moving out of “go-go girl mode,” how quitting caffeine changed my relationship with my body, and why modern culture keeps us stuck in chronic stress. We dive into the concept of yin and yang energy, why relaxation is essential for hormonal health and pleasure, and
117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”
117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all” mar 3, 2026 2012 In this episode, I share a deeply personal reflection on turning 40, living in the in-between without a home, and what it has taught me about identity, nervous system regulation, and belonging. I talk about choosing family over constant movement, how simplifying life has changed my relationship to desire and sexuality, and why prioritizing both quality and quantity time with children feel
116: Q&A - fantasy, self-touch, and body signals
116: Q&A - fantasy, self-touch, and body signals feb 17, 2026 1489 In this episode, I answer three honest and intimate questions from my community about mental arousal and fantasy, shame or disgust around self-touch, and burning or sensitivity at the vaginal entrance. We explore why the brain is essential for pleasure, where the “dirty” feeling around touching yourself comes from, and how to listen to your body when it communicates through sensation rath
115: life updates + my season of expansion
115: life updates + my season of expansion feb 4, 2026 1493 In this episode, I drop in with an honest life update after a long pause from the podcast. I share what the past months have really been like behind the scenes—sleep deprivation, sickness, moving homes during the holidays, intense mothering seasons, and the slow return to myself. We talk about pride in motherhood, being seen and appreciated, coming out of a year of deep healing, and what
114: Q&A - arousal drop after Clit Os, disgust when touching yourself, and getting back into intimacy after 10 months
114: Q&A - arousal drop after Clit Os, disgust when touching yourself, and getting back into intimacy after 10 months dec 11, 2025 2064 In this episode, I answer three powerful questions from my community about orgasms, disgust in self-touch, and how to find your way back to sex after a long dry spell in a relationship. We explore the refractory period after clitoral orgasm, how to “edge” your pleasure to expand into vaginal orgasms, what’s really behind feeling icky or nauseous when you touch your body, and how to reconn
113: Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom?
113: Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom? dec 4, 2025 2282 In this episode, I unpack a powerful question from a listener who shared that while she’s a fully capable adult woman in every area of life (career, motherhood, friendship, creativity), but her sexuality still feels frozen at age twelve. She resonated deeply with my reel “Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom?” and described the confusion of being perceived by others as sensual while i

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